I think the part of this book I can relate to most is the party scene. Most guys are looking for something different (ie. physical) in a relationship.

Also as says, it was the first time in her life that she had done something perfectly OK."

and I agree. If I get married. I want it will be one of the most important decisions of my life, I don't want to give into pressure.

It's interesting to hear all of the different view points in this group. And I think the view points are very applicable, because this book is science fiction, but it is also written with a hope that soon the book will be obsolete and make little sense to those reading it. I feel like that moment is coming, slowly and surely.